Keeping things sexy when distance is against you
AT TIMES, LONG-DISTANCE relationships can be frustrating, especially when you’re trying to keep the sexual spark alive with no physical contact. On top of saying goodbye to the one you love—or lust after—you’re also saying goodbye to those long walks on summer days, those tender kisses under the stars, and—let’s not forget—hot, passionate sex. Thankfully, in the 21st century, there are some new alternatives to help release sexual tension for long-distance couples around the world.
Sexting, sexting, SEXTING!
Sexting is essentially when you put both texting and sex together. Those who are technologically inclined will soon find out this can be done all day, every day! What’s so great about it is the response of your partner when he or she receives your naughty photos, videos, and/or words. Another great aspect of sexting is that it can be spontaneous—your partner could be in class, at work, or just waking up upon receiving your sext, giving him or her an excellent reason to stay in bed.
Expensive, yet rewarding, phone calls
Phone sex is when you and your partner are happily touching yourselves as you speak to and direct each other on the phone. If you are new to this and feel a little intimidated, one thing you must remember is to always be confident. When you’re calling your partner, make sure you know exactly what it is you want to do to him or her. What’s great about it is that one of you can take control and direct the other, or you can take turns giving sexy commands. As a result, you gain trust in each other, find out what the other likes, and hear exactly what it is the other wants. You’ll definitely want your partner on speed dial.
The webcam: a perfect goodbye gift
Cybersex is a virtual sex encounter that can include two or more horny individuals. One of the greatest advantages of this type of spark-saving sex is that you can actually see your partner—even if only via a small laptop screen—getting down and dirty right in front of you. This is a great way to come together and feel the same sensation you once had while you were both in the same bed. Although it’s not quite the same as that physical touch from your partner, it’s probably about as close as you can get. Just make sure to have something nearby to clean your keyboard with.
