Dear Di,

My girlfriend has a huge clitoris. It’s probably an inch in length when she’s aroused. I’ve seen a few vaginas in my day, but nothing like this. Should we be worried about it?

—Pretty Huge Clit

Dear PHC,

In a word, no. Chances are everything is A-OK with your lady love. Clitorises are like the people they’re attached to: They come in many different shapes and sizes, all of which should be celebrated. Admittedly, your girl’s love nub is uncommonly large and in charge, but is it a health concern? Most likely not.

Rare cases do exist in which an enlarged clitoris is the result of an overload of testosterone in a woman’s body. If your lady is worried, she may want to book an appointment with her doctor.

In the meantime, you should do whatever you can to show your girl how much you love her fantastically large pleasure button. She is undoubtedly aware of its size and may be somewhat embarrassed by it, so make it your goal to kiss, lick, and love that clit whenever possible.

In all honesty, I think you should consider yourself one of the lucky ones. Unlike many men, you’ll never have to enlist the help of a search and rescue team to find your woman’s clitoris!



Dear Di,

I get really horny whenever I have my period. Is that weird? Do all guys think it’s disgusting to have sex with a girl while she’s menstruating? Is there something I can do to minimize the blood flow? 

—I Love That Time of the Month



Many ladies feel their friskiest when the red river flows. It’s nothing to be alarmed about, but I imagine it must be quite irritating to stave off sex at the exact moment you’re dying to do the dirty.

So, what’s a girl to do? You could always masturbate, of course… Or you could put a condom on any consenting cowboy and ride him until the cows come home.

To put it simply: Most men will likely ask for a rain check, but not all are grossed out by a little period blood. The best way to find out if your dude is down is to ask him. To be fair, you should give him ample warning before the panties come off. If he’s OK with the idea, feel free to hop on, forget about it, and enjoy yourself.

If your guy is a little uneasy about getting it on while Aunt Flo is in town, consider investing in a diaphragm or a menstrual cup. These devices aren’t foolproof, but they will help keep the messiness to a minimum.

Although some boys won’t bat an eyelash at the sight of a bit of blood, pull out your vibrator on the days in which you experience your heaviest flow. Your bed sheets will thank you.



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