Dear Di, I honestly can’t stand not having sex for a week when I’m on my period. How can I bring up having period sex with my partner, and what should I do if they say yes? —Red Menace Dear RM, For those who have vaginas, period shaming is a tale as old as time. …
Luckily, your vagina doesn’t have any bones, so it can’t be broken, however it does require some maintenance!
Often times when a partner expresses jealousy or insecurity, brushing it off can make the issue snowball. Even if you know nothing is happening, make sure to take your partner’s concerns seriously.
Offer to get tested with him, if this would make him feel more at ease. Get him a cake afterwards and offer to eat it off his body, if that’ll do the trick. A lot of communication and a little bit of foreplay can often go a long way.
Never fear, pseudo-doctor Di Daniels is here! My diagnosis? You’re completely normal. Breathe a sigh of relief and relax. Almost everyone experiences something that makes them question their sexuality, if even for a moment.
10/10 would not recommend.
At the end of the day, dating as an ace is hard. A lot of people just don’t understand. But I find the best way to get past it is just take everything with a grain of salt and stay true to yourself. And lots of cake. That helps too.
There are still ways to have sex missionary-style and while spicing things up.
My boyfriend and I have tried watching porn together for the last few months, but everything seems sexist. I try to get into it, but every time I just keep thinking about racial and social inequalities, and were the actors paid enough, and was anyone exploited and, well, you get the point.
With just a little work, even the busiest bees can keep the birds-and-the-bees alive.
The first thing you should do is talk to your DILF and figure out where he stands on whether he would expect you to meet his kids, interact with them, or take care of them at all. Chances are he’s probably not ready to introduce someone new to them, but it’s good to be on the same page.
If you brought someone else home for the night, would your roomie be jealous? Unclear boundaries are a sure-fire way to cause your sexy hook-up to descend into a drama-infested nightmare.
If your boyfriend is a real keener for resolutions, why not find something you can do together come the new year.
Are you dating someone that has no interest in comic book movies when you love them? Are you wondering whether it is a good idea to move in with your partner? Dear Di has the answers you’re looking for.
Why guys rearrange their bits. Di Daniels knows.
In order to help you prepare for the possibility of a bad dorm-mate, here are a couple “tales of woe” from Fulcrum contributors that should clue you in to the personalities that should be avoided at all costs.
Is it OK to withhold information under oath because you’re embarrassed? No, but is it ok to overlook the fact these women chose solely to withhold information that doesn’t fit the ‘socially valid’ abuse victim profile? Certainly not.
When it comes to your relationship, should you exercise a strict ‘no-exes’ policy?
A lot of relationships are rampant with acts of selfishness. But is masturbation one of them? Di Daniels digs a little deeper into this titilating topic.
It’s always difficult trying to introduce sex toys into the bedroom. But with Di Daniels on your side, you might just stand a chance.
Sex on the first date. Bedding your best friend. Playing for the other team. These are some of the issues dominating today’s sexual politics. Coincidentally, these are also the topics of this week’s Dear Di.
A psychotherapist stopped by the U of O discussing how to remove toxicity out of one’s life.
In response to the growing use of casual sex terminology in sexuality studies, a recent study from the University of Ottawa looks to identify strict definitions for the terms that are loosely used when we talk about hooking up.
If you ask me, it is a far bigger loss to never love than it is to love and then lose it.
U of O interviews Julia Sondra Decker on her new book The Invisible Orientation, a book featuring information about the asexual orientation.
