bdsm

Temperature play involves using heat and cold during sex, usually during foreplay. This broad kink can come in many different forms—it’s usually a part of BDSM, but doesn’t have to be by any means.

Just like with the hippie counterculture, the mainstream could learn something from the BDSM subculture and their strict emphasis on safe, sane, and consensual relationships that don’t take anything for granted.

Just in time for Valentine’s Day, Di Daniels recommends some kinky practices that will make this sultry holiday season even more special.

It’s imperative to understand the pros and cons of bondage and different knots before thinking about BDSM. Most learn rope first to actually learn the ropes— pardon the pun—of the subculture.

Dear Di, I have recently gotten myself into a dominant/submissive long-distance relationship from an Internet site. I have no experience in this, but it’s something I’m serious about trying and I’m very excited about it. The man who is now claiming to be my master says he is very experienced in this field of sex, …

Orgasms galore as promised by the book is by no means a guarantee, so don’t set yourself up for disappointment by expecting that you and your guy will start euphorically breaking through the latex ceiling at the same time.