Dear Di

Dear Di is the Fulcrum foremost expert in sexual relations

My current hookup has expressed interest in pegging but neither of us are committed enough to sink money into the necessary toys and splitting the cost with a hookup makes it feel too much like a relationship.

Dear Di's Blue Album

The person I am currently hooking up with has a very bad sex playlist. I am scared to tell them because they are emotionally fragile and seem to be really connected to their music. But nothing turns me off more than hearing Weezer’s “Undone – The Sweater Song” or Radiohead’s “My Iron Lung” while having sex. What should I tell them?

Di dressed in her witch costume

It’s time for the annual Halloween edition of Dear Di, where Di, the Fulcrum’s sex and relationship expert answers your Halloween sex questions. This year, she gives advice on what to do about a curious cat and answers if it’s normal to be turned on by sexy Halloween costumes.

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