It’s always difficult trying to introduce sex toys into the bedroom. But with Di Daniels on your side, you might just stand a chance.
Sex Advice
Sex on the first date. Bedding your best friend. Playing for the other team. These are some of the issues dominating today’s sexual politics. Coincidentally, these are also the topics of this week’s Dear Di.
According to Di Daniels, anal isn’t just a sex issue for women and gay men. Straight guys can get in on the fun too.
If you get to experience the joys of a curved penis then you’re a lucky girl. A bent member can hit all the right places.
Sex position of the week: The Linguini
1-No one cares
If you decide to slack off and not attend class, your professors and fellow classmates won’t care. What your peers will care about is the terrible habit you’ll make of constantly asking for notes for the classes you missed.
University is a time of friskiness, exploration, and hot steamy sex. Never again in your life will you be surrounded by so many hot’n’ready singles, so enjoy your time here while it lasts. I know I sure have.
Dear Di, I’ve never understood the hype about giving head, and despite the fact my new partner is more than happy to return the favour, I still don’t fully share his enthusiasm for it. I haven’t had the heart to tell him that going down just isn’t my go-to activity for getting in the mood. …
One thing computers are not commonly supposed to do better than us is love or feel emotions. This is supposed to be a special human trait. But is it really?
Dear Di, I have a fantasy about whipped cream. I want to cover my partner in it and lick it off, but I also want it all over—and in—my partner. I know it isn’t the safest, but I think eating out my partner with a little sweet taste (and maybe a cherry on top) would …
Dear Di, I love anal penetration. It’s at the point where unless I have some serious butt lovin’, I won’t orgasm. It can be really hard when not all my partners are happy to play the back hole. Is there any way to get it going on more frontally to keep everyone happy? —Back-End Benefits …
Dear Di, With all this hype about 50 Shades of Grey, my girlfriend and I are looking to start working a little BDSM into our sex life. I haven’t watched 50 Shades. So I am completely inexperienced when it comes to trying out some new moves. How can we get started (safely) without killing …
Dear Di, Why does everyone hate on the good old missionary position? I feel like it gets such a bad rap. The problem is I love it but often my partners don’t. Call me lazy—I always feel really comfortable being on the bottom in this position—but my partners often seem reluctant or don’t want …
Dear Di, I’m a bit of an oddball. I have never had any sexual desires or tendencies for as long as I can remember until now. Even when I was younger, my friends would comment on their crushes and relationships. While I definitely think people are attractive, I have never wanted any physical contact with …
Dear Di, My penis has two holes. I’ve been more aware of it since I started masturbating, but since entering university, and getting some action other than my hand, I’ve really become more conscious of it. My parents have never mentioned anything to me. I can pee and ejaculate just fine. What should I do …
Dear Di, My roommate’s best friend often comes out with us when we go out downtown, and unfortunately, every time this girl has come over we all want to gag at her body odour. Apparently someone let her in on her smell, or she realized her self-stench, and she went to the doctor a week …
Di Daniels answers student questions in this week’s edition of Dear Di.
Dear Di, I’m torn—literally. I slept with a guy a few days ago and he was huge. I’ve slept with my share of guys before, but never with quite a catch of this caliber and circumference. I was kind of nervous before sex because I didn’t know him that well, and during sex I …
From techniques to toys, here are some things to try with your partner — no matter their gender — that’ll have ‘em begging for your next move.
