My boyfriend and I have tried watching porn together for the last few months, but everything seems sexist. I try to get into it, but every time I just keep thinking about racial and social inequalities, and were the actors paid enough, and was anyone exploited and, well, you get the point.
With just a little work, even the busiest bees can keep the birds-and-the-bees alive.
The first thing you should do is talk to your DILF and figure out where he stands on whether he would expect you to meet his kids, interact with them, or take care of them at all. Chances are he’s probably not ready to introduce someone new to them, but it’s good to be on the same page.
While we all know that recycling, taking public transit, and limiting our consumption of animal products can all help reduce our environmental footprints, you can also take steps in the bedroom to make your sex life a little greener.
If you brought someone else home for the night, would your roomie be jealous? Unclear boundaries are a sure-fire way to cause your sexy hook-up to descend into a drama-infested nightmare.
In this Q&A, we cover the basics of consent, how to navigate consent when alcohol comes into the mix, and what the U of O can do to foster a consent culture in a time where rape culture on campus remains a major issue.
Is your travel fling coming to an end? Do you plan on hooking up with strangers abroad this summer? If you’re looking for advice on these issues, you’ve come to the right place.
Does being in a long-term relationship lessen your university experience?
Is going down getting you down? Our sex columnist Di Daniels has the answers to all your oral sex questions.
Should you get tested for STIs if you’re using a condom and showing no signs of infection? How to tell your partner you have an STI. Dear Di answers your sexual health questions.
Are you stuck in a love triangle and don’t know how to deal with it? Is your friend cheating on their significant other? Dear Di dishes on this week’s dilemmas.
“I always say I learned way more off campus than what I did on. It’s about figuring out who you are, because self-awareness is the number one thing in my opinion.”—Sue McGarvie.
Just like with the hippie counterculture, the mainstream could learn something from the BDSM subculture and their strict emphasis on safe, sane, and consensual relationships that don’t take anything for granted.
I got naked. I formed a pyramid. I kissed and touched a whole lot of people. I drank some God-awful shots. But I didn’t have sex with anyone, and I didn’t get a piercing because that was beyond my personal limit. I did things “for the points” but they were all things that I already wanted to do.
Are you having trouble resisting that hot co-worker? Going home for the holidays, but still want to get it on? Dear Di knows all and tells all.
A lot of relationships are rampant with acts of selfishness. But is masturbation one of them? Di Daniels digs a little deeper into this titilating topic.
Ontario (CUP)—Alongside the typical promises of a high-energy time to help first-years adjust to student life at Laurier Brantford, this year campus administration is setting forth initiatives to ensure that students are aware of the university’s growing commitment to sexual assault awareness. “We want to let everyone know that we’re making conversations about consent and …
1-No one cares
If you decide to slack off and not attend class, your professors and fellow classmates won’t care. What your peers will care about is the terrible habit you’ll make of constantly asking for notes for the classes you missed.
One thing computers are not commonly supposed to do better than us is love or feel emotions. This is supposed to be a special human trait. But is it really?
A psychotherapist stopped by the U of O discussing how to remove toxicity out of one’s life.
There’s a new touching tale at Arts Court which may make you curl your toes in delight.
Dear Di, I’ve always loved Halloween because of the costumes people wear. I get really turned on by how into character people get. This year, I want to host a Halloween party and later turn it into an orgy. I haven’t explored group sex very much, but how can I make sure I get a …
Dear Di, I’m torn—literally. I slept with a guy a few days ago and he was huge. I’ve slept with my share of guys before, but never with quite a catch of this caliber and circumference. I was kind of nervous before sex because I didn’t know him that well, and during sex I …
Dear Di,
Since I broke up with my girlfriend in July, I can’t seem to maintain the same standard of sexual performance with other girls as I did with her. I’ve tried going solo 30 minutes to an hour before, but it doesn’t seem to help. Do you have any suggestions that could improve my stamina?
U of O interviews Julia Sondra Decker on her new book The Invisible Orientation, a book featuring information about the asexual orientation.
