Dear Di answers the age-old question of what to do if you are haunted by desires for ghosts.
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Sex and relationship columist Di Daniels has recently announced that she’s not a therapist.
As an instagram influencer, the holiday season is an essential time for my business.
Since I found out I am a squirter, I’ve been really embarrassed about it and haven’t been comfortable finishing with anyone since.
Literally moments after having liked someone’s selfie, my partner will message me and ask why I liked it.
My current hookup has expressed interest in pegging but neither of us are committed enough to sink money into the necessary toys and splitting the cost with a hookup makes it feel too much like a relationship.
It’s time for the annual Halloween edition of Dear Di, where Di, the Fulcrum’s sex and relationship expert answers your Halloween sex questions. This year, she gives advice on what to do about a curious cat and answers if it’s normal to be turned on by sexy Halloween costumes.
The announcement that Ottawa was heading back into Stage 2 was awful news. Mostly because it means that my partner and I can’t go out and do all the things we were planning this fall. We’re both pretty new to campus and the city, and don’t know much about what Ottawa has to offer. What are some fun, romantic things that we can do together safely?
Because of roommates and family, my partner and I have been looking to take our bedroom activities to the car. I have never had sex outside of the bedroom before, so I have no clue what the dos and don’ts of car sex are. Can you share some tips on proper car sex etiquette.
Dear Di, my landlord has offered my roommate and I a discount on rent in exchange for sexual favours. While this is a really strange and uncomfortable situation, we really enjoy the location and quality of our building and don’t want to leave our home. I am worried that by saying no or ignoring the offer, we could be evicted. What should we do?
My partner is a germaphobe, they are grossed out by everything. This is horrible when it comes to intimacy as there are so many rules that I must respect to make them feel comfortable.
I have been in a happy relationship throughout the summer. We spent plenty of time together, and always made plans for when we’d see each other next. Now that classes have started, we’ve both become busier people. Unfortunately, I am struggling with seeing my partner less often, wondering when we’re going to make plans, and simply, dealing with getting less attention. Do you have any advice to help me adjust to these changes?
I’m in my second year of a STEM major at the University of Ottawa, and it feels like everyone else is getting laid but me. Do you have any tips to help me attract some cute engineering students my way?
During quarantine, I had the pleasure of flirting with various people over text, dating apps, and snapchat. These flirtatious conversations stemmed from boredom, but ended with me promising these people I’d hangout with them or go on dates when lockdown ended. But now that things are opening up, I don’t actually want to see any of these people. What do I do?
My partner and I are both incoming first years at the University of Ottawa, we’re both fans of kinky, public fornication. As someone more familiar with campus, could you tell me where the best spots to shag are on campus?
Being apart from your partner amid the COVID-19 pandemic is going to be tough, there’s no way around it. But here are some things to do that might make it a bit easier.
There are tons of options out there for you to get yours without an unwanted *surprise.* How to know if going the route of IUDs is your best bet.
So, your partner’s cheated on you. Is it over? Depends on you, your partner, and your taste for revenge.
If Tinder bios tell us anything, we know that Jim and Pam pretty much serve as relationship goals for this generation. We don’t blame you for that, but workplace relationships can be a little trickier than NBC would have you think.
Well into cuffing season but fresh into a new year, do you find yourself wishing you weren’t single? Maybe you wouldn’t be if you hadn’t have taken that girl to see Joker. That and other tips in Di’s Declassified First Date Survival Guide.
From your pictures to your bio, here are the mistakes you’re making at every step of the online dating process.
It’s that time of year again. I get some pretty niche questions, but believe me when I say that you’re not alone on this one.
There are a hundred different reasons why your friends may dislike your partner, ranging from friendly jealousy to your partner actually just being a jerk, so let’s narrow it down a little.
You’ve contracted an STI, got it diagnosed, and got your antibiotics. Now it’s time for the hardest part — telling your partner(s) they have it too.
Your beginner guide to the adult’s toy store.
