Protect yourself from STIs, of course. Just make sure to do the same for heartbreak, as well.
dear di
He licked my teeth. Like, not just once. Once could have been an accident, I guess. Thinking it was a silly little misunderstanding, I laughed. Alas, it was not. This guy seemed determined in his teeth-licking pursuit.
I don’t think I would say that that’s a normal dating app experience, but it’s definitely far from the worst…
I’ve been dating a guy for a couple months and it’s been going really well… until he found my ‘hit list’. I know it’s kind of weird, but I keep a list of all the guys I’ve had sex with. Their names, dates, ranking, that kind of stuff. He found it.
The good news is: chlamydia is highly treatable, so it’s good you caught it early. Your Oakville WAP is going to be just fine (and you’ll probably be better by Reading Week).
Di is back, and as always she’s answering students’ most pressing anonymous sex and relationship questions.
Have any questions for Di? Don’t hesitate to reach out!
My partner and I are both incoming first years at the University of Ottawa, we’re both fans of kinky, public fornication. As someone more familiar with campus, could you tell me where the best spots to shag are on campus?
What makes it even worse is that his favourite porn star looks nothing like me!
Tag a pillow princess.
Last week I matched with this person on a dating app and they are clearly out of my league but want to hook up. I am hesitant as this person is not in my bubble and there is a chance I contract COVID-19 from them. I was wondering if wearing masks and even sunglasses or goggles while we have sex will eliminate the risk of transmission?
All of my friends are in happy, serious, committed relationships… Do I need to be in a serious relationship right now? Am I behind?
Di Daniels is the longest standing Fulcrum employee — and it’s not even close. Some current Fulcrum employees were born after she was first hired.
Asserting dominance does not just start in the bedroom, it’s a process.
He is only attracted to narcissistic ‘queens’ on the show, what does that say about me?
Di Daniels, the Fulcrum’s longest standing employee, has written a number of Dear Di’s over the years. Here is a compilation honouring her best efforts.
Can you still be friends with someone after a breakup? Is it even worth it?
It can be hard to become second fiddle to your partner’s Xbox.
Dear Di answers the age-old question of what to do if you are haunted by desires for ghosts.
Sex and relationship columist Di Daniels has recently announced that she’s not a therapist.
As an instagram influencer, the holiday season is an essential time for my business.
Since I found out I am a squirter, I’ve been really embarrassed about it and haven’t been comfortable finishing with anyone since.
Literally moments after having liked someone’s selfie, my partner will message me and ask why I liked it.
My current hookup has expressed interest in pegging but neither of us are committed enough to sink money into the necessary toys and splitting the cost with a hookup makes it feel too much like a relationship.
It’s time for the annual Halloween edition of Dear Di, where Di, the Fulcrum’s sex and relationship expert answers your Halloween sex questions. This year, she gives advice on what to do about a curious cat and answers if it’s normal to be turned on by sexy Halloween costumes.
The announcement that Ottawa was heading back into Stage 2 was awful news. Mostly because it means that my partner and I can’t go out and do all the things we were planning this fall. We’re both pretty new to campus and the city, and don’t know much about what Ottawa has to offer. What are some fun, romantic things that we can do together safely?
