Dear Di: Where does my boyfriend get off to during the holidays?
HO HO HO… JUST WHAT IS MY BOYFRIEND DOING EVERY YEAR? Dear Di, First off, OMG, big fan of yours! Anyways, I’ve got a bit of a problem… I think my... Read more.
Dear Di: My crush only reads La Rotonde
IT COULD BE WORSE — AT LEAST THEY DON’T READ THE CHARLATAN Dear Di, I’m an avid Fulcrum reader but my crush prefers La Rotonde. He’s got that... Read more.
Dear Di: TikTok is ruining my relationship
Is peeling oranges romantic or just routine? Dear Di, I’m not that interested in social media — I don’t have Instagram, have never Snapchatted, and... Read more.
Dear Di: How early is too early for marriage?
When you find your forever person at university, don't let them go! Dear Di, My partner and I have been together for two years now and I know I want to... Read more.
Dear Di: the 30-Year-Old situationship that went south
When your Instagram romance turns into a soap opera featuring a surprise fiancée, you know you’ve entered uncharted relationship chaos Dear Di, I was... Read more.
Dear Di: How do I bring up mental health struggles to my partner?
HOW TO SHARE YOUR STRUGGLES WHEN YOU HATE CONFRONTATION Dear Di, How do I bring up my mental health struggles to my partner? To me, it seems like a... Read more.
Dear Di: Howl in bed, not at the moon.
IF HE’S GONNA RIP YOUR FURNITURE AND NOT YOUR CLOTHES, GHOST ‘EM Dear Di, So like, I’ve been seeing this new guy recently. He’s a real hairy... Read more.
Dear Di: Certified self-sabotage
Sometimes you’re your own worst enemy Dear Di, I think I’m my own worst enemy. I met this cute girl at a party a couple of months ago, and we... Read more.
Dear Di: How do I stop doomscrolling?
A PHONE ISN'T ALWAYS A GIRL'S BEST FRIEND Dear Di, I spent all summer doomscrolling. While my classmates were vacationing in Europe or spending time with... Read more.
Dear Di: Buying condoms without self-checkout
Human contact while buying condoms? No thanks Dear Di, Maybe it's just me, but I can not take a box of condoms up to a cashier. Maybe it's the residual... Read more.
Dear Di: The sexual politics of Netflix and chill
How much thought should you put into a movie you won't actually be watching? Dear Di, Help! I have someone coming over to "watch a movie" or whatever,... Read more.
Dear Di: Love Actually makes me want to barf. Will my heart ever defrost?
At Christmas you tell the truth: I can't watch mushy romance movies Dear Di, I just watched Love Actually for the first time and audibly scoffed at... Read more.
Dear Di: Un-moanable names
Is their name un-moanable or are you just not trying hard enough? Dear Di, My most recent hook-up should have been perfect. We were on the same page... Read more.
Dear Di: Am I desperate?
The smell of desperation: myth or reality? Dear Di, I recently jumped back into the dating pool after a break-up. I've had a lot of initial success with... Read more.
Dear Di: Why the fuck are you proposing?
Ew. People are looking Dear Di, I was seeing this person for less than a year and they decided to propose to me on my birthday… at my birthday... Read more.
Dear Di: Reddit is third wheeling my relationship
I (21M) hate that my boyfriend (22M) posts about our relationship on Reddit Dear Di, Why in the world do people think it's acceptable to post about... Read more.
Dear Di: breaking up out of boredom
🎶Break up with your boyfriend, cause your bored🎶 Dear Di, I’ve been with my boyfriend for just under two years, and I feel like I... Read more.
Dear Di: How do I emotionally recover from perceived public indecency?
AUX-up in FSS Dear Di, Bluetooth is like your cheating, gas-lighting partner. It builds a relationship of trust with you for months, only to weaponize it... Read more.
Dear Di: Foods to avoid on a first date
Sardine kid Dear Di, I am planning on asking someone out on a date — so nerve-wracking and exciting all at once. The silver lining of putting myself... Read more.
Dear Di: What shouldn’t I say in bed?
Time and place Dear Di, I’ve recently received poor feedback on my pillow talk and it’s ruined my sex-esteem. I don’t know what I’m saying wrong.... Read more.
Dear Di: how do I plan a party?
It’s just a get-together Dear Di, While going to parties is fun, I’ve never been the type to host them myself. Chronically an overthinker, every... Read more.
Dear Di: How do I get laid as a social sciences student?
No debates on dates Despite the snow and slush, it’s been a rather dry winter for me, if you know what I mean. If, pray tell, you don’t know what I... Read more.
Dear Di, how do I choose a guy?
Juggling hearts Dear Di, This has never happened before. While I’m more of a Galentine’s Day gal, this year I have two potential dates for... Read more.
Dear Di: What music is first-date appropriate?
Drive (and listen) safely Dear Di, I have a date tomorrow and, while I should be excited to pick them up, I have a chronic fear of being handed the aux.... Read more.
Dear Di: Can men and women be friends?
Sweet state of Alabama Since starting university, I’ve only had female friends because, as a single straight girl, it feels like guys only look at me as... Read more.